The kind of mind-blowing, risqué, unforgettable sex that wakes the neighbors and causes them to turn up her stereo (she's just jealous!) isn’t something that only happens in rom-coms. If your sex life
is a bit too vanilla for your liking, it's time to turn things up a notch or five with new and daring moves. Whether you're up for an encounter on the kitchen table or a bit of kink, here's how to make your sex life hot, hot, hot!
1. if you’ve fantasized about the erotic power play that an erotic spanking can deliver, test the waters with a beginner’s crop (this one features a leather size and soft faux fur side) or open hand. The slow, stinging strikes will warm you up for a long, steamy sex session AND give your guy a full view of your derrière. For a cheat sheet that includes tips on how to bring it up (which, let’s face it, can feel awkward) and a guide to different spanking sensations.
Light bondage is another way to spice things up in the sack. Sexy cuffs, blindfolds, and entire kits are readily available online, or you can D.I.Y. it tonight with a scarf. For a sizzling twist, tie your guy’s wrists to the bed posts and drive him crazy with light kisses before going down on him to make him lose his mind. Feeling naughty? This might also be the time to give him a new hickey.
2. anal
anal sex can be incredibly hot (and not incredibly painful) when done correctly. Remember these three rules: Go slow, start small, and use lots of lube (preferably silicone-based, which lasts longer).
To start, bend over the side of your bed or dresser and have your guy touch and kiss you all over. If your nerves have gotten the best of you, take a break or stop. You aren’t ready yet, and that’s okay.
When you are ready for anal pleasure, break out the lube. He should rub it around your anal opening and insert a lubricated finger into your anus. After pushing it in and out for about 60 seconds (or until you feel comfortable), your guy should insert a second lubricated finger in for an additional 60 seconds. A small anal toy (covered in lube) would also work. It’s best if your first handful of anal sex experiences is with fingers or small anal toys only.
After rubbing lubrication onto his entire man-hood, your beau ought to enter slowly, working up to thrusting (but not too hard). Face-to-face anal sex is also a possibility. When his man-hood has entered your anus over the side of the bed, slowly move onto your back. Enjoy the ride, ladies!
3. sex in Bold Spaces
sex in the same bed every other night can get boring. And sometimes, a change in location is all you need when the excitement wanes.
Rent an erotic movie on your laptop, light a few scented candles, and do the dirty deed.
Hot sex tryst on the kitchen table? We’re craving a sweet treat –and not of the caloric kind. In the shower? Lather up! In a tent? Don’t forget the citronella candles!
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