There has been lectures all over the world on how to start-up, maintain and keep a lasting and strong relationship. Some writers of sorts – doctors, psychologists, relationship expert’s et al have prescribed ways of initiating attraction in the
opposite sex and contracting a sound, long-lasting relationship. However, there are various setback and concomitant issues associated with going into relationships which is majorly dependent on the mode of approach and the people involved.
While the early months of a relationship can feel effortless and exciting, successful long-term relationships involve ongoing effort and compromise by both partners. Building healthy patterns early in your relationship can establish a solid foundation for the long run.
Each party in the relationship is responsible for their own behavior. That being said, if the relationship is not a relationship of substance, then it is important not to do things that suggest that the relationship is more than what it actually is. In other words, don't lead a person to think that the relationship is more than what you actually want it to be.
We must ask ourselves, "What is a relationship to me"; because some people take the term relationship very lightly. You don't meet a person one day, and decide the next day that this person is a quality individual that I need to have in my life; because we all put our best foot forward when we meet a new person. But in order to truly see a person's true colors, it is important to spend time observing their character.
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